Quit TTC?

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We’ve been ttc for almost 3 years and I feel exhausted. I really want to quit but at the same time I think about a baby everyday. We had 3 failed medicated IUIs and the meds made me gain weight and caused adult acne. I want to take a break, but can’t take my mind off of it, does anyone have any tips?

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What has your doctor said after your failed cycles? Is ivf an option for you?

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If it’s in the cards for you, I would ask about moving to IVF. Granted, a lot will happen to your body, but a lot will happen to it when you are pregnant as well. In terms of taking a break, I know that can be helpful for people but I don’t think I would have been able to. I wouldn’t have been able to stop thinking about it, which to me, contradicts the point of the break. How does your partner feel? Have you all discussed taking a break? It might be helpful to define what that means for you, and what coming off of the break would look like.

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After 3 medicated IUIs I'd probably move on to IVF if that's an option.  It is such a grueling process, but the thing that keeps me going is knowing each try could bring us our baby. I did 3 medicated cycles with TI, one medicated IUI, and moved on to IVF. I often think about what I'm doing to my poor body and my mental state, but if I don't keep going there really is no chance. You're not alone in how you feel. Infertility's effect on the brain can be compared to someone that's been told they have cancer. It's a completely consuming and difficult journey. I'm sorry you're having to go through it. Deciding to stop trying is such a personal decision. There's no right answer, only what's right for you and your partner.

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Hang in there!! It took me 5 iuis. The first month that I did full injectable meds instead of oral it worked. See if your doctor will use stronger fertility meds. Wishing for the best for you!!

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I feel exactly the same. On a new cycle now and I’m thinking when will my poor body have a rest, why am I persisting when the odds are against me? Sooner or later I feel I need to make peace that it’s not meant to be. I hope it works out for you, whatever you decide. Stay strong and try to find other positives in your life.

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Hugs, i felt the same and took a break. It didnt help me get pregnant or want having a baby any less but i really needed a break from the meds. Blah. Going on 3 and a half years.

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