So I have a lot of nieces and nephews. 12 to be exact ranging from ages 25yrs-5m. My oldest brother has a 25yr old, 13, and 12 year old. They are very well off, and have or get everything they want. They are also hard to shop for because they are picky. I usually give them $20 each. Then I have my nephews that my parents take care of, they also get plenty of things they want. However, I have two other siblings a sister and brother who have very young children and one with severe autism and they are struggling. I don’t give babies money, I usually buy them clothes or books. I also try to give them more since they can’t really afford that much. Is it wrong that I spend more on the kids that don’t or won’t get as much from their parents? I also try to get my brother and his wife basics for themselves like socks and underwear.