Emotionally abusive relationship

Does any one know of any emotionally and manipulative abusive support groups?

Has anyone been in a relationship like that or is currently in one?

I say abusive because it’s abusive in every way except physical.

I just really need to talk to other people that have gone through this and gain some insight.

I have two LOs and I’m a SAHM. Currently looking for employment but I definitely want to make sure I can make enough to support myself and children.

I want a divorce but my husband is against it and I also don’t want to remove them from their home. Just don’t know how much more I can take.