lazy fiancé !

so let me start with i’ve known this guy my whole life. he’s the stepdad to my child and has been with us for 9 years.

so he works a lot so he’s always kinda been laid back and i never cared. i’m a stay at home mom (i work from home) and that’s about it. i cook clean, pretty much everything other than my daughter doing her chores.

recently he got a macbook air which he paid for with both mines and his money when we were saving up for vacation. we usually have vacation in february and go to florida and then a cruise since we are in maine it gets cold. every since then he’s been in the basement working on music. every day when he gets home he’s down there.

now since i’m home all day we usually go on a little drive and get some dunkin’ donuts and listen to our podcast. my daughter doesnt mind cause this is usually the time she blasts music and does the dishes. we’re not gone for long anyways. the max we are gone for is an hour. she’s 13 too so she can handle it.

so i was waiting in the car for him for 30 minutes and he never came out. downstairs. the whole time. he told me he was getting ready to come up when i went down there before.

on sundays we usually have feasts cause it’s his day off (he has tuesdays and sundays off) and usually he’ll cook then. we also go grocery shopping on these days. i did it all MYSELF while he was downstairs. he didn’t even come eat with my daughter and i.

i get it’s his passion but it’s coming to the point where he’s my second child. i need advice. i already talked to him about it and he kind of shrugged it off.