Is he cheating 😭 UPDATE

For the past 3 days my bf has barely been talking to me . And when I say barely I mean maybe I get a Gm txt and that’s it . Nov 30-December 1 he spent the whole day and night at his brothers house and wouldn’t talk to me so then I asked if our relationship was ok and you can see the conversation. The last one is today’s conversation which last night we made progress because he called me at 11pm but I had worked a double and was tired so it was only to say goodnight basically .

What could be wrong with him ? Usually he tells me stuff like a family member sick or death in family or he got fired etc ... so only thing he can’t be telling me is cuz he feels guilty right ?

SN: His ex is also his brothers apartment neighbor and they are all cool and I found out she was back in town from the army for the thanksgiving holiday. ...At the beginning of our relationship he’d say he was at his brother house but he was over there at her house but I didn’t find out till his brother made an inside joke on Facebook and tagged my bf and she liked it so I asked and he said they all was cool and he snitched in himself by accident but said he was to chill like watch tv and stuff cuz they all was cool post breakup . I didn’t trust it so I messaged her and she told me what they did was her business but confirmed that when me and him were in the talking phase he was still in a relationship with her but wouldn’t tell me anything about after I started dating him but later I did ask him and he told me the first time he went over there was cuz she wanted closure and they had sex which he regretted because she got clingy after that and he didn’t know how to tell me but still low key entertained it . That was back in February. He has changed since . He blocked her on fb and her phone number but that doesn’t mean he can’t knock on her door when he’s over there . Tbh I trust him but not all the way in the back of my mind I always think bout when he’s over there . But it not bad enough that I need to leave him...

**hes 26 and I’m 24 .

replies :

Aimie- his brother is a hour drive away from my house. I know where he lives but I never met them in person so the most I could do is confirm his car in the parking lot but can’t knock on the brother or ex gf door to see .

Mrs- yea he cheated on me with her right after we got together . I mentioned that lol

UPDATE!:

So I guess it has to do with his dad ...he’s always telling him to do stuff , run his errands, pay his bills, take him places, etc ...it’s annoying when I’m otp with him because he has to hang up so I get it but I don’t get why I can’t talk to him 🤔