My fiancé and i have been through so much it’s a miracle we are even still in a relationship and committed to one another. Flinty issues are causing problems for us and it’s frustrating. B4 this year I had never asked him for financial help. At some points I carried BOTH of us. This is his first time ever working a job that wasn’t handed to him through nepotism and his first time ever helping a woman financially. He lives with me in my house where mortgage and bills are due every month. While I earn $21 and hour, he earns $8. He has no car so I pick him up from work and I also work. Now his uncle said he could work for the city with him as he does earning $11/hr and bae is willing to work part time at the $8 job and full time at the $11 should he be hired. BUT the catch is my fiancé has no transportation and only wants to catch the bus to the second job not catch the bus in the morning. The catch is that I’d have to drive him to work 6 to 7 days a week, 35 minutes away so he can start his 8am shift. I feel that’s a bit much for $11. He thinks his uncle won’t bring him to work even though they have to go to the same place and he lives nearby. He asked if I’d be willing to wake up at 6:45am every morning to take him to work. He has the nerve to tell me I have to step up and be an adult I’m not a teen anymore WHEN IM THE ONE WHO HAS BEEN CARRYING MYSELF AND HIM. I had to TEACH HIM how to find a job! Because he only ever had stuff handed to him. My whole family sees him as a kid and ME as a grown woman because I’ve worked 2 and3 jobs at once when I’ve had to and he has quit jobs within the first HOUR and first WEEK😳. But IM THE ONE WHO NEEDS TO STEP UP AND GROW UP?! The nerve😒. I didn’t earn a master’s degree to chase $11! I’m due for a $2 raise this month😤. He has a masters from an Ivy league but McDonald’s is easier I guess since he can’t do much with what he studied. kinda pissed me off.