Venting!

I get some weird comments when people ask me “ is this your last kid” and I say maybe maybe not, I plan on having one more. They give me this weird face or “ can you handle it, are you sure, they’re going to be bad, your making a mistake” & so much more. Little bit of a back story, I left my off and on again abusive relationship with my first son dad. I left him stay celibate and found Jesus. In that time I met my husband , which omg I never knew what good love was, I thought that this abusive relationship was “love”. The reason I want more kids is too many to count but the main reason I want children with my husband (which I already have one 10 month old with him and another on the way) is because he’s such a loving caring amazing person, even more father and husband!!! I just love seeing him with a child that isn’t even his , he took him in and loved us both and to see him with our son makes me soooo much more in love! So idk why I get these comments or like it’s the end of the world that I want 4/5 children. I know it’s my choice and I shouldn’t care but a little part of me does idk why!! I’m just venting! Just feeling a bit emotional that people in my family see it as wrong! But oh well can’t please everyone 🥴