Drifting apart?😭 * help*

Hey all.

So I have been with my current boyfriend for 3 years come March. I’ve been with him since I was 16.

I love this man so damn much. He’s one of the best things I could’ve wanted/been with during the past 3 years of my life.

Now comes the difficult part. Him and I have different schedules so we haven’t been seeing eachother consistently. When we do? It’s amazing. Love, passion. Great. But when we haven’t hung out in a bit, I don’t feel that insane pull.

I’ve also been going out partner dancing by myself a lot. ( swing/salsa/etc) which has always been a passion of mine. There’s one guy that comes pretty consistently and him and I hit it off. Everyone quickly said he had a crush on me. To which I thought was sweet, but I’m in a relationship and would NEVER imagine cheating. But he has a certain charm and attractiveness to him that I haven’t felt for any other man who has approached me when I’ve been dating.

But recently, because of that awkwardness in my current relationship. I’m starting to wonder if I am slowly drifting away. I’m so worried that I am... he is my first ever boyfriend and so I really don’t know what “ drifting away” is supposed to feel like. Or when I’m supposed to act on it and break it off.

I don’t want to, but part of me thinks I should because I’m still young and it is my first relationship,be it a longer one.

Help. Any thoughts on when you’ve gone through this?

* double posted because I didn’t know what group*