Amaxophobia

How did you get over it? Ive been almost hit so many times from people being on their phones or simply not looking in their mirrors. The other day as i was leaving college a car turned without looking. This car wouldve t-boned me. Her car was like a inch away from my door. I beeped at her and we both barely stopped in time. I cried all the way home while shaking as i drove. I cant get over it for some reason. The other day as i was going to my MIL we were behind a car and got in a diffrent lane and the car wasnt paying attention and started merging into my lane and scrapped the whole side of my car. Now Its hard for me to be a passanger as crazy as it sounds. Its not that i dont trust the driver i just dont trust other cars. I will have a full blown anxiety attack.