Alright I finally gotta GLOW story

My SO that I FINALLY let meet my child after 2 years of dating thinks he can punish my child. Here's a little back story

I trusted him, my mama trus6t him, my friends trust him, so I say alright let's do this I want you to be apart of my life. I thought I knew him so well. I am crushed but my baby comes first. Shes my number one. He said to her, your mama said pick them toys up. I let it go bc I thought he was trying to fit in and help me. Then he yells HEY! COME ON! I don't like that shes only 3. I say hey now I can handle this. Thats strike one. The next thing he did, he brought home hot sauce because she mouthy?! Hell no! Shes 3!! He said he wants to make her eat some everytime she talks back. I kicked him out, it created a lot of fuss and the neighbors called the cops. I LOVE my baby there no WAY he going to step in and try to parent and especially in ways I DONT APPROVE. he would get mad if she wanted to sleep with me and storm out as well, that's 3 strikes baby. Buh BYE!

My friends say I'm over reacting. Now my question glow friends... am I wrong?!? Shes number one and she dont know him well enough for that BS.

He begged to meet her and always tried talking about her with me so really all of this hurts me. My friend say she needs a father figure but I'll be damned if anyone like him comes near her