I’m at my wits end with my husband

My husband works a full time job, and I stay home with our 7 week old (still on leave).

After he gets home from work, I hand her off to him and cook dinner. He will place her in her bouncer and look at his phone “bc he hadn’t looked at it all day at work”.

We will eat dinner, then I will take her back and start getting her ready for bed. After I’ve rocked her to sleep, he will take her. He doesn’t like holding her when she’s awake bc if she starts crying he can’t settle her, so he just holds her while she’s asleep. He will then rock her while I get myself ready for bed. He will lay her in bed, then it’s my duty for the rest of the night. Feed, burp, change diapers, rock back to sleep, all while he sleeps. Repeat everyday.

I get that he works all day and is tired (me too) but man I wish I could get a break- and him be a parent. I get soo annoyed when I hear him tell people “how tired he is” or “how hard it is”

Or when he talks about how his “daughter hates him”

I just wish a LITTLE BIT of effort was put in.

I feel like I’m starting to resent him!!!

We even looked up things online about how to get baby to like him- and he won’t try any of them!