Do you think my boyfriend wants to be with me?
So we've been together for 7 almost 8 years, we brought a house together 4 years ago. Im 24 and hes 26. These past couple of years he seems to be abit distant with me, he has his moments where he's all loving but I dont feel like he enjoys spending time/being around me. All he seems to do is want to play on his playstation, he finishes work alot earlier than me, I get home around 6:30pm and hes on his playstation everyday, I make dinner he pauses his game to eat then goes back on it the same for the weekends he spends all day on it from the minute he opens his eyes to the minute he closes them. Whenever I mention it or say anything such as let's watch something together he says 'this is what I enjoy this is my hobby, you need to find a hobby'🙄 even at night when we're in bed, he'll put something on HE wants to watch or lays on his phone watching youtube. Whenever we do watch something together he spends the whole time on his phone. I no longer get morning or night kisses, he hardly messages me throughout the day and our sex life is shocking, we probably only have sex once maybe twice a month. What do you guys think?
EDIT
thank you so much for you responses, it's so difficult on what to do, I love him and can't imagine being without him😔 I'm just so fed up of feeling unwanted and not appreciated for everything I do, its such a horrible situation to be in. I've spoke to him a few times but will try again tonight, if thinks don't improve in the new year i'll suggest a break to see if it makes any change, thank you xx
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