In my previous relationship my ex and so had a lot of sexual chemistry. We knew what each other liked, had high sex drives and just overall worked well together, despite only being together for 3 months.

In my newest relationship I never felt so happy and in love than any other relationship I’ve been in. However, to me our sex isn’t great. I thought being in love and happy would lead me to love the sex I have with this person however I always find myself unsatisfied.

He has a low sex drive, very timid in bed and just plain bland in bed. I feel terrible feeling this way because I love him so much but I’m scared that our sex life might become an issue later on.

I feel guilty too because I find myself comparing our sex now to the sex I had in my previous relationship, not because feelings are still there, but because it was much better than what it is now.

What should I do? Is this normal to feel? I’ve tried talking to my boyfriend about what I like but he just seems too shy or uninterested to really try.