Controlling boyfriend ?

So .... I wanted to post this picture on Instagram, so I did. But when I posted it my boyfriend made me delete it, told me I was bugging out & that all I want is attention from guys. Which is not true I just like my body and I like to show off my body just because I like it & I’m a bad bitch! Like if you can’t deal w pics like this don’t date a bad bitch. I have a bunch of pictures where my butt kind of shows on the side & he tells me I better not post them. He says he doesn’t want anyone else looking at what’s his... then said “what would you do if I had abs and posted them all over my Instagram” I said “I would hype u tf up” and he got mad at me... is this controlling or is it normal and I should just respect it? My ex boyfriend didn’t care what I posted and he would hype me up all of the time, so I don’t know which one was normal.. please help me out!!!