Obsessive Ex?

I left my ex fiancé about 2 1/2 years ago. We have an almost 3 year old together. He drags me to court like every 3-4 months for nonsense reasons and my attorney and a few court officials have labeled it as “bullying” at this point. So I’m in a relationship since him. We met 6 months after I broke up with him and have been together 2 years, married for 4 months.

Okay so when I first started dating my now husband, my ex was stalking me on social media through fake accounts (which he admitted in court). And then dragged me about how “irresponsible it was for me to be dating”. He called and FaceTimed me and dragged me verbally about how “me and my boyfriend will never last and I’ll bounce from man to man”. After I officially announced I was in a relationship (which I had already been in that relationship a while, i just announced vía social media) a month later he announces he’s in a relationship. Me and my boyfriend got a place together (bought a house), at this point we have been together a year. Literally a month later he announced he’s moving in with his girlfriend (of like four months). I’m like okay is this like a competition to him?? I announced I’m pregnant a few months ago (yay for us!) I assumed he knew because I am pretty sure he is still some how watching my social media accounts. Now he’s announcing that him and his girlfriend of 7-8 months are pregnant too

Idk maybe I’m crazy but it’s like anytime we announce or do anything, a few months later he announces or does the same thing. It’s becoming increasingly common. We announced we were going on vacation, a month later he announces he’s going on vacation too. By announces I mean that we tell him. Sorry if that’s confusing. I have to tell him about significant situations that impact our child like taking him on vacation, moving, or having a new sibling. It’s just weird that a month later he somehow is announcing the same thing. And I honestly feel creeped out that his girlfriend is due a few months after me. Like maybe I’m crazy and paranoid and it’s all in my head. But idk. Doesn’t feel like it.

Vent post.