(not sure if this is the right community but idk where else to post)

so i’ll start by saying we’re not 100% homeless. i have an apartment an hour away where i was going to school but i’m trying to get someone to cover the lease for spring because my classes are all online.

i work at home & before i met my SO i’d flip between staying at my grandmas & staying at my moms when home. my SO was staying at his moms. we were saving up for an apartment while paying off my credit card. i have a fair credit score even with a maxed out card. i’m getting ~$3000 plus income taxes at the end of the month which is what i was putting towards an apartment (plus his paycheck, unemployment bc laid off, + income tax) but that wouldnt be til february that we could get in somewhere.

we were staying at his moms but she has decided to kick us out. which, okay that’s fair i don’t mind.

i figured we could crash with my mom for a few weeks, she has a spare bed & we wouldn’t have to pay for anything except give her rides (her cars broke down) until we get a place.

his sister also has a spare bedroom that we could use.

we were told we had to be out 2 days ago but she hasn’t said anything until today (we were hoping she’d change her mind but oh well). so i’m currently at work & my mom texted me & asked what we were doing. i haven’t said anything else to her but it was kinda nice she remembered.

so here’s the problem & where i need advice.

my SO wants to just stay at my apartment an hour away. which, ok but as i said HES LAID OFF so he isn’t working. i’m not going to drive an hour to work. i don’t have the money for it. my credit score dropped 30 points because i’m now -$86 on it. i have literally NO MONEY. idk how he expects me to afford that. but he also REFUSES to stay with my mom or his sister.

i don’t know what he expects me to do. he doesn’t get paid for 3 more days & i work tomorrow so i cant afford to drive an hour there & back & there again 😭

is he being selfish? or am i? how can we compromise? he said about renting a hotel but as i said, he won’t get paid for a few more days. i have $8 to my name

edit to add — we only have my car. i’m the only one who drives atm