Ready for kids but he wants to wait
I’m 24 and have been with my husband since I was 18. I keep pushing to have kids but he wants to wait. I find myself talking about babies almost every day, I literally feel like that’s all I think about. It doesn’t help that I have 4 family members who are pregnant or just recently had babies. Every once in awhile my husband mentions “maybe I do want a baby” but then when it comes to the time of the month when we could possibly get pregnant he has a change of heart which is hard for me because I get my hopes up.
We’re in a good place financially, he got his dream job about a year ago and I have a decent job. We’re in the process of house hunting and will likely buy in the next 6 months.
I know I’m probably just overthinking but in the back of my head I keep thinking what if he never wants kids and I’ve waisted my young years with him because I really can’t picture a life without a family.
I love my husband but it just doesn’t seem like he takes me serious when I bring up having kids.
Does anyone have any suggestions?
(Sorry for the vent)