Labor

I’ve done walking and bouncing on a ball. Nipple stimulation and foot massages and nothing. This baby doesn’t want to get out. I have an appointment tomorrow; I’ll be 38 + 4 and I feel like I know for a fact that I’m not dilated. I have this feeling that I’m going to go past 40 weeks and I’m just so tired of being pregnant. I know she’ll come out when she’s ready but it’s just annoying because my fiancé is 4 or 5 hours away working and I’m afraid he won’t make it in time. Also I don’t even know how I’m going to get to the hospital when/ if I go into labor. I’m stressed and worried and scared. And I have a 3 year old boy.