Does his response make sense to you?

So... my husband and I have been fighting a lot for the past 2 months. He was working two jobs and decided to quit the job he was at after being there for 5 years. I agreed, I thought it was the right decision. I feel though that since that happened and since he quit the other job, that he’s changed. We already discussed that our sex life is garbage at the moment and trying to have a baby for years hasn’t helped. We discussed the fact that I feel like he’s not interested in me anymore. Today I said to him, I feel like you’re different. Since working there you’ve been different and I feel like you’ve pulled away, I feel like you’re not as affectionate with me. He said “ maybe I’m just changing. Maybe you need me to give you a million kisses and embraces. I want to kiss you when I want to kiss you.” That’s what i don’t understand ladies. His response. Because.... people change and people grow... I get that...... but how does changing as a person make you change how affectionate you are with your spouse... and make you pull away......?

When he said this... I responded and said “ the only reason I can think that you wouldn’t put as much effort in with me, is if you’re putting it somewhere else.... I asked him if he still loved me.... he said “ yeah.......... I still love you”. Do you still want to be married to me.....? Yeah..... if I didn’t, we wouldn’t still be trying to have a baby.

..... I’m sorry, I’m venting, i just feel tormented every day that he’s up to something and this is why he’s changed.

I cried once he left to go to the gym and now I’m cooking dinner just sitting here; I don’t know what’s happening with us.....or how to fix it.