I think some women choose not to have their first baby because of all the stuff surrounded.

Which is why I always like to say “wait for the right one, girl, you’ll see”

I mean, there’s the pain of actually giving birth. There’s the fear that some men are going to be awful fathers. There’s the pain involved before giving birth. There is work to put into it after giving birth.

So I say to all you ladies, do your research and don’t be afraid! You are all amazing and you deserve a lot more praise for what you do than what you are getting.

Being a mom is amazing I have found, though. Once you have that child, you’ll basically figure out the rest. Other than having a very good reason like not being able to produce a child

.. which is perfectly fine and happens all the time - I don’t agree when women say they don’t want a baby. And now you might see why. Wanting a child is beautiful, and should be supported by your partner a 100% also. There is nothing more human than accepting a child into the world.

So yes, you want it. You just don’t want to deal with all the other stuff. Which is fine. Like I said, do your research. If you still don’t want a child, then who could blame you ha-ha!

Xoxo, transman