I’m currently 16 weeks pregnant and live with my boyfriend (baby’s father). Today we got into a big argument while he was at work over something that shouldn’t even be a reason to argue . Anyways he started blowing everything out of proportion and calling me very disrespectful names and how he wasn’t going to come home to spend the day with me . He told me to make my own plans that he already made his for the rest of the day. I argued and told him to stop speaking to me in the way he was and that we were spending the day together regardless , I refuse for me and my unborn baby to be his second option. He continues to disrespect me and tells me that he doesn’t love me , he loves that I’m giving him his first child but we will never be a family, he will disrespect me but never disrespect his daughter/son. He says that he doesn’t appreciate me for anything more but the baby. He’s the only one working and paying the bills and the only person he appreciates is himself . I don’t have any other support systems and I told him that I refuse to live underneath the same roof as him if we are not going to be a family so I’m giving back our apartment by the end of this month and leaving . I have no clue on where I would even go I just can’t stand to live a fake life with someone who clearly doesn’t want to be with me . I’m done trying to have this family be one if he doesn’t want it .