Relationship advice

i need some advice. started dating this guy and it’s honestly going so good. he’s become such a huge part of my daughters life, they adore each other. and my boyfriend gets excited when wednesday’s come and she comes home from her dads. anyway, i have my own duplex and live a nice quiet life style. rarely have company and i have my own flow of things. well my boyfriend co owns a home with his parents. (his loan is larger than his parents half)... well he keeps sliding in our convos about me moving in. that’s a HUGE step seeing id be going home small quiet home with just my daughter and i to, my bf, his parents, myself, my daughter, sometimes his brother and niece.... well tonight his parents had people over. loud people. didn’t know this until we got home. i have to be up so early for a photo session (i’m a photographer) and so i went home..... really worried this may become an issue in our relationship if i never want to move in. now i don’t know if i’m asking for advice or just to rant. mind you, he tip toes around that house as if he doesn’t pay bills or own anything.