Do they ever change?

Question

Last night was the first night my husband choked me. This morning I woke up with his hand mark on my neck and bruises on my shoulders..
I’m just so confused, I feel violated and I don’t know what to do. He’s crying saying we shouldn’t be together that I don’t deserve that, I just can’t find any words for him. I haven’t spoke to him

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No. He won't change. At least he loves you enough to recognize that you deserve better (if he's saying it from a genuine place vs trying to mend fences). If I had to guess, I would say he's not very confident that he won't do it again if he's saying you shouldn't be together.

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hes manipulating you. you need to leave. please leave. it only gets worse from here on out and the last thing you need is to die. your relationship is toxic. leave now.

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LEAVE

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He won't change. I'm sorry. You need to leave.

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Run!

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They only love you enough and are sorry until they do it a second time and then a third and so forth. Get out and press charges for the bruises on your neck, before things get much worse.

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They don't change. Never will. It, however, is up to you to decide how you want to proceed. First and foremost, keep yourself safe. Your life isn't worth his "love." All women react differently, some stay and play the victim others leave and become one less statistic. The choice is all yours honey. At the end of the day can you lay your head down and feel safe in bed next to him. If you can't, that's your answer. 
P.S. These are just my thoughts. Not trying to rain on anyone's parade. Know that I'm praying for you!

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He will not change. You’re life is in danger. He needs help and you need a lawyer, divorce papers, restraining order and a safe place to live.

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Only a fool would stay 🤦🏽

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Leave. You need to leave and I think deep down you know that.

Do they ever change?

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