Should I go for it?

Theres this guy i have known for years and i have never gave gim a full chance but everything checks out. Our sex is spontaneous and random. He only cares about pleasing me, he puts me and my daughter first and its just everything i want in a man. Unfortunatley, i have hurt him wen i decided to go to another man nd i am with him currently nd i was completly honest with him about all of that. I do love him and care about him but i just feel in the future just wudnt work out because he cannot have kids, well he can but he wud have to get the surgery to undo it. He tells me if i really commit to him he wud most def get unsnipped or whatever but i just dont know. This new guy we just do not connect as much nd i always have to make the first move with sex and i never get off and he always does and then goes to sleep. i try to wear lingerie and i do not get what most women get or want, i get the opposite reaction. If it was the other guy he would kiss everyinch of my body or wanna take pictures of how good i look or even try new things..... i dont know, any advice ladies???