My Boyfriend called me out of my name

Long story short, I was asking him about school and work, literally asked him 3 questions, which turned into him saying “you don’t need to be worried about me. You worry about you. Nothing I do has never affected you and it won’t ever affect you” I told him, “We’re about to move in together. How is anything you do not going to affect me?? If you get sick, guess who’s going to have to take care of everything? Me” so he’s like “no don’t worry about wtf I have going on. You have bigger shit to worry about. Worry about your own shit” so I’m like “ that doesn’t make any sense. If I decided to go and be a stripper and told you not to worry about wtf I’m doing, you’re going to be like wtf?” He then proceeded to say”You know wtf I meant, bitch” and I’m shocked at this point so I ask him what did you say? He said “you heard what I said.”

He deliberately called me a bitch and I hung up on him. Now we’re texting and going back and forth and I’m crying and he doesn’t see anything wrong with it and he’s saying that he said it in response to the stripper comment and that I’m always playing the victim and I know wtf I did.

Idek how to handle this right now. He really hurt my feelings and I told him that and he doesn’t care. Am I overrracting?