Embarrassed but needing help

I would be so grateful for some input from you ladies who relate and even if you don’t!

So I was looking at gift ideas for Valentine’s Day for my husband. Lots of the ideas had lingerie.

My dilemma is I’m not really sure if I am scared of lingerie because of the 60 lbs I’ve put on and hate my body, or if my husband doesn’t really like/care about seeing me in lingerie.

My husband and I don’t sext or send nudes, we don’t really talk much about sex. His compliments are very rare so it’s hard for me to know what he likes. He does love porn and naked women like most men do. But I’m not really sure if he likes my body or would care about seeing me in lingerie since I do not look good naked at all. He’s never been interested in sex more than just a couple min a week. I would hate to buy it and then feel stupid if he doesn’t get excited :/ I just want to feel like a normal 24 woman. Please tell me if I’m just in my own head about this :/