Would you be annoyed?

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I’m 31w 4d with my second baby, his first. Last pregnancy and this one both I’ve had absolutely no sex drive whatsoever. On top of that I had a lot of bleeding at the beginning of this pregnancy and I’m considered high risk. 
The problem is my fiancé is constantly begging me to have sex and pouts when I say no. It’s an all day every day thing with him. He tells me I don’t have to have sex I can just play with it until he gets off. What about no sex drive doesn’t he understand??? I don’t want to see it, play with it or anything. 
Every single time we’re in the same room together it’s nothing but sexual innuendos, bribes and begging. I’ll finally get annoyed, snap and it stops for a few days but starts back shortly after. He says he cares that I’m hurting and that he understands I have no sex drive but clearly he doesn’t. 
Am I right to be annoyed with this to the point I hate even being in the same room with him? Its got to the point I just get up and walk off as soon as he starts.

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You have every right to be annoyed. I'm 18w and have had NO desire to do anything sexual since week 5s o I completely understand. My husband is fine with it. He may jokingly ask "can I grab a titty today?" And accepts it if the answer is no, my boobs are super sensitive usually. But he doesnt mope around like an idiot.

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You can’t even give him a hand job?

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Just tell him to go masturbate. Hand him some lotion and tissues.

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No means no. He needs to respect your wishes.

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Some of the people commenting on this is actually annoying no means no she already said he concerns that she a high risk pregnancy due to bleedi g she has no sex drive and the fact that she is being told that she should compromise 1st off she never said he couldn't watch porn so the man can sort his self
2nd she is heavily pregnant and that can be uncomfortable enough as it is he shouldn't be doing things like that when she has made it clear she doesn't want to and the people saying that her not having sex will drive him away please keep your stupid comment to yourself who the hell even put those sort of thoughts into a person's head

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I see this as two problems, but the main one being his lack of respect. If you say no, it should mean no. I get that intimacy is a big part of relationships but for him to demand it everyday all day....not healthy. The fact that he pouts/begs you when you say no, big red flag as far as lack of respect is concerned. Maybe it’s just immaturity on his part but I’d sit down and have a serious talk with him.

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Im sorry but it shouldnt be so one sided. Yes you dont want to but he does and has a very valid reason for it as its a very natural feeling. You guys are a parnership...which means teamwork makes the dream work! Compromise is a huge part of successful relationship...you either should help in some way or let him watch porn to get himself off at least or just know that you could be pushing him into making some bad decisions. Not saying he will just saying he needs this as much as tigers need to hunt.

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