He just told me he would rather work🤬
This pregnancy has been rocky, with first the husband being in denail, then his daughter causing strife and a major family split; his mother and sister's threatening me so forth; my daughter stressing that she will not be loved, and a major silent treatment from the husband. Still i attempted to keep us together, i still cooked, cleaned, ran errands and work full time to take care of the house with no help from him or his 17 yr old daughter. Spending mommy and me time with my 7 yr old to reassure her she is still GREATLY loved. Attempting to repair the rift between my husband and i, along with trying to accept and show his daughter that she is important too. Well with his daughter that's a lost cause because she is totally disrespectful and he doesn't correct her. He doesn't enforce any responsibility for her actions and it all directed towards me, not cleaning behind herself, blatantly throwing dinner i fix away,talking very disrespectful to me and my daughter, and telling lies on me to his family to continue with the threats from his sisters.
Last night we were conversating and he said that he would try to be there when i go into labor. He would rather work because of bills being due. He wants me to go into labor on the weekend so he can try to spend time on Saturday and Sunday and then go to work come monday. I dont know how to take this.
I have been doing it all, by myself and no support from him. He even got pissed at me because i had my baby shower right before his moms birthday!
I will most likely get induced at 39 weeks, currently 36 today. Which means it will be a Monday evening. That means i will be alone and he will have my car. I am making plans for my mom to take care of my daughter while i am in the hospital but i am feeling some type of way about him keeping my car. I dont trust his daughter in my home alone while im away either. Im just ready to leave the whole house and start over with just me and my 2 girls.
If you have read this far thank you for allowing me to vent, what would you do? How would you feel?😪😪
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