The conversation of using a sperm donor has put so much strain on my marriage where it brought me to the point of basically choosing my marriage or a family elsewhere. I’ve invested so much and love my husband, so I chose the marriage and to just let go of the donor/baby talk. It’s still a thought in my mind but I’m trying to learn how to continue life with just us two and our dogs. It’s still part of my prayers that my husband changes his mind and decides we can move ahead with donor sperm. I’m somewhat keeping the faith that this will all work itself out.