VBAC or repeat csection??

So im 36 wks today, and this whole pregnancy I've been pretty dead set on a vbac. However, today at my appointment, my doctor kinda worried me. She brought up how she recently lost a baby due to a uterine rupture. She's had successful vbacs for like 30 years, and this was her first, but she seemed really nervous about it. She said there's no reason she's worried about me, other than the fact that 1, my previous 2 were both induced, and the fact that im not dilated at all. But now I feel uneasy about it. This is my last baby and I really want to experience a vaginal delivery. I also have a toddler and a 7 yr old that I'm really stressed about taking care of while recovering from a csection.

Any of you dealing with this dilemma??