Forgetting I’m Pregnant

How do you connect with your little one?

I find myself totally not showing any love to this new baby in my belly because I have my toddler son that I shower with all the affection. It’s not that I’m not excited for her, but that my son is the apple of my eye until I meet this second angel I’m being blessed with. It’s very surreal that I’ll have that newborn to fawn over again. But I’m really not doing anything special for her while she’s in there. I’m just maintaining and taking care of my son and household. I know I’m big and everything I do takes a lot of effort, so it’s obvious I’m pregnant, but it’s just not outright obvious to me that I have another one that’s going to be the center of my universe, too, just as much as her brother is.

Any tips to connect?