Boyfriend told me having sex with me is a nuisance.

Hey guys,

I’m 22 and my boyfriend of almost 3 years is 27. I have a higher sex drive than him and could have sex everyday if he’d let me.. where as he would do it 3 times a month if he could. We compromised and said twice a week seems fair and I was ok with that.

I don’t like to initiate the sex because he always rejects me and so I stopped trying to initiate it for weeks... I had just finished my period yesterday (tmi sorry) and we haven’t had sex in about a week, but the other night he asked for a blow job and I gave him one. Afterwards, I jokingly said “I’m expecting amazing sex in the next two days” and he said “of course baby” so two days go by and he didn’t try to have sex so I go over to try and initiate the sex and he rejects me again!

So my feelings get hurt because he told me he would have sex with me and didn’t and I can’t remember a time he didn’t say yes after me initiating it. Every time he does he gets a yes from me!

Well this morning we get into an argument and he tells me that I want sex too often and that it’s a Nuisance to have sex with me and I should find someone who actually wants to have sex with me ... those words really hurt and I don’t know what to do at this point. It’s not all about sex for me but it is a large important part in a relationship and he doesn’t understand that.

HELP!