How would you take it?

Question

So my boyfriend watches porn *Shocker!* & hes been open about it,even saying "Any guy who says he doeisnt is lying!" So I was sorta teasing him about it the other day it does kinda bother me just the fact that he gets off on other women🙄 but he then said "Well you dont send me any pictures or anything" For some odd reason I didn't care in the moment but now im sitting here over thinking it..How should I take it?Im obviously not gonna bring it up again but for the next time?should I just get over it

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My husband and I don’t watch porn. I think when men say, “if they say they don’t watch porn, they are lying”, are insecure men! My husband agrees that porn doesn’t have a place in a relationship. 
Also, I don’t think you need to feel like you have to send him pictures now so that he won’t watch porn as often. He has you right there! No need for porn or pictures!

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My partner and I are completely fine with porn. The only way it would’ve a problem would be if it became addictive and or affected our sex life. I also give him plenty of material of myself to use 😉. Everyone’s relationship is different so you two need to sit down and have a mature adult conversation about it creating boundaries for yourselves. It really don’t matter what the internet thinks- you’re going to get extreme answers from all ends of this debate- which is posted like a billion times everyday.

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If you and him have sex and when you don’t, he watches porn to please himself , to me that’s completely normal. Especially if you don’t send pictures to him.  I would say just get over it. I’m sure he didn’t mean it in a disrespectful way. A guy is a guy.

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