Does your husband criticize you ? Mine makes me feel unwanted.

I used to be a thin girl but when I ended up with depression I gained so much weight. I tried and tried to lose weight but keep failing miserably.

My husband used to compliment me all the time but not anymore.

Last year I decided that I wanted to be different and dress up wear makeup look pretty. I was getting attention from everyone else except him. Instead he started asking me.

He would say things like:

“ why you take pictures like that ”

“ why are you smiling “

He said more stuff but those are the main ones. One day I confronted him about and he said he just feels like I’m getting other people’s attention. So I put his feelings in consideration

So I stopped. I stopped taking pictures of my self I stopped posting anything that has me in it. But then I payed close attention to him and noticed that he will compliment other girls but me. Why? Aren’t I beautiful to him anymore? It sucks i feel so insecure. I’m not worthy of a compliment. It just plain sucks. Our son loves watching our wedding video all the time. I get happy watching it but then I look at him and he looks disappointed idk how to explain it.

Idk am I being overly sensitive?