i just need to rant

lately ive been seeing a LOT of girls asking if they may be pregnant, and thats fine, its always helpful to seek advice! however, they are usually asking the question followed by "used condom, pulled out before he came in the condom, am on birth control" and i have to wonder if the school system failed them by not teaching them how conception happens, or if they skipped that class. i geuss im just kind of sad for them instead of being frustrated. for anybody who is wondering that exact thing, it is not possible for you to become pregnant if you are using condoms, on birth control and using the pullout method all in the same session. there has to be fertile semen present in your female body in order for conception to occur and even then its only a major worry if you know you are ovulating, which is why it can be frustrating when you are actively trying to get pregnant. best of luck to anybody ttc in 2020, and to everybody, love yourselves.