Too tight

Hey guys! I’m a virgin and I’m soo scared to try to lose my virgin because I have a lil problem. I feel like I’m too tight, like when I’m not aroused it’s hard to put just one finger in or not hard just like tight, and when I am i can do two. The problem is is that I swear I can feel like my bones around the hole that seem too small to fit that? It might be because I have smaller hips (I just got my period like three months ago so they might grow some more) but do you guys have any advice