Do I give him another chance?

Hey so, when I was 14 and a freshman (18 and senior now) I was chatting back and forth with a guy late at night, eventually we started light flirting (telling each other you’re cute, etc) and I was kinda into him. Decided that if he asked me on a date I’d say yes.

But then he bluntly asked for sex. I was pretty shocked (he comes from a good family, pretty posh, good grades, not the sort I’d expect this from). When I didn’t respond immediately he confessed that he was drunk (again he’s 14). I awkwardly said no and wrapped up the conversation pretty quick, then started crying. Idk why but I was really shaken.

Soo... now it’s 4 years later, he’s hanging with a good group of friends, he seems into me again. Outwardly he’s a really respectable guy, but I’m just really torn about him.

Now that I think on it, part of the reason I cried before may have been that 2 years prior I was held down and threatened with rape by a much larger guy... (different guy, different school, different continent). But the mention still shook me at that age. So that part isn’t really his fault. But... yeah idk what to do. All my friends (great friends) think he’s a really good guy.