Help!

Emma

Hi friends! I’m 20 years old and TTC with my fiancé. We had our first baby together almost 3 years ago now and we’re ready for another one, but I’m having some really discouraging issues. 6 weeks after my daughter was born I had the Mirena IUD put in, I had it for about a year, decided I hated it and switched immediately to the Nexplanon. I loved my Nexplanon but we wanted to start TTC in August so I had it removed the first or second week of the month. My midwife told me that we shouldn’t have any issues conceiving because we’re both young & healthy, but I am slightly overweight since the birth of my daughter. I literally didn’t lose a pound from birth, and in fact have gained 20 more pounds :(. I know weight plays a factor but I was assured it wouldn’t effect anything. We’re now on month 6 of TTC and nothing. I’ve had 2 periods, and haven’t gotten one for the month of January but tests earlier this month were negative. I’m just really discouraged. Why was it so easy to conceive when we were not trying lol