Ok little back story (I'll make it short) I met my husband last year and we dated for a few months the got married in August. We've been married for 6 months (almost 7) and I'm 5 weeks and 5 days pregnant. Well we are renting his grandmother's trailer (she owns almost everything in the hollar) and my brother in law and his wife used to stay in the one beside of us before they moved out of his crappy place and she was pregnant (now has a 9 month old) the guy didn't keep a job, his wife was lazy, they lived off the government but when they talked about their pregnancy everyone was excited. Fast forward to this year. My husbands 17 year old cousin got pregnant (and got married) and once again everyone was in awe. But this month I found out I was pregnant and was hoping for positive reactions to announcing, and got it from my family and my husband's uncle and his wife, but not his grandmother and his dad. His dad just told us he was disappointed that we didn't wait a year before having a kid, and Everytime it's mentioned around his grandmother she gets quite and acts like she's silently judging (because I will admit my husband makes 8.50 an hour and yes you can't raise a kid off of that but he's freaking trying his best) but it pisses me off that all we get is the silent treatment and they're not happy at all. Last time I checked, I have a say in who is in the kid's life once it's born, so if they try to make me regret my baby I'll cut them off. Me and my husband are over the moon but we are given the cold shoulder. I get it, his grandma is 75 and has experience but who is she to judge? She doesn't give advice, she demands it like with our finances and crap and other stuff. I'm 100% done. I hope to God how soon my husband finds a good job and we can leave. (Oh and his grandma and dad tell him to get a better job but don't want him to leave this yeeyee town like she's told him he isn't leaving) she makes us feel like what we do isn't good enough compared to her physical therapist granddaughter and her granddaughters nurse husband. It feels like money means so much to her and I'm sick of it 😠😠😠