how do i get over being raped by my boyfriend ?????

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i was raped by my boyfriend last week. i didnt scream or cry or anything, i just kept trying to push him away and was telling him to stop. its only been properly affecting me these past few days as i have realised it was rape. i feel constantly disgusting and any time i think about sex my body feels so numb and disgusting and i dont know what i’m meant to do. i just want to cry to someone but there is no one that i can tell because i dont want anyone to know that this happened to me as i am still with him and i dont want it getting out that it happened

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You're daying your rapist? Go to the police. if he did it once, what makes you think he won't do it again & again?

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you need to tell a trusted adult. you’re a victim. please do not hold it in. i was raped at age 15, im now 17, almost 18 and just told my family about it. it was the worst decision i ever made. please speak up. you are not alone. get out of that relationship also, that’s not healthy dear. if you EVER need someone to contact, feel free to message me. i am here for you. you have a voice.

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I'd start with breaking up with him.

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I am 29, and am happily married with two beautiful children. 
From the ages of 15-21 I was in an abusive relationship with an man I eventually engaged too (I got out before getting married) 
He was sexually abusive. First it started with once in a while I was sleeping and would wake up because he was having sex with me. Eventually he didn’t bother waiting until I was asleep. 
That ended 8 years ago, there is no getting over it. There is eventual acceptance and moving through it, and learning to live with what happened. 
I shared my entire story, because you are still with him. I felt stuck, and I stayed. It started as sexual, but eventually he became physically abusive as well. I know you are ashamed but it is not your fault. And you need to get out of that relationship. It will only get worse. 
Please do not stay, even if you fell you have too. I wish I had left much sooner than I had. I kept justifying what he was doing. But there’s no justifying. It’s just wrong.

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I wish you the best. I suggest you leave him for your own well-being, but I understand if that feels scary right now.

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Talk to someone you can trust if you feel comfortable or go to a therapist. It will help you so much. Sending you all the love. I’m so sorry that happened.

how do i get over being raped by my boyfriend ?????

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