When did you go back to work?

I’m curious about when did you UK mommies go back to work after your baby was born?

I’m currently at home with my 1 year old who’s still breastfed and I’m starting to get some judgement from people because I don’t want to go back so soon (plus because I’m still breastfeeding), because I feel like neither me or my baby are ready but I feel like people think I’m lazy or I want to be on benefits forever which I don’t, I just feel like it’s not time for us yet and I also don’t want to miss out on anything.

Is this weird? I know everyone is different but being with my baby all day is the best and the most natural thing for me for now, I love to see him learn something new every day and I cherish every moment. I feel lucky to be able to do this however it’s not easy financially but it’s worth it, until the time is right, we can manage with a tighter budget. I also think it’s okay to be wanting some “alone time” but for me a couple hours are enough per week, I’m just not like some people who can’t wait to put their baby to nursery and go back to work to get a few days break but we are all different. Why is it so weird that I want to stay with my baby for longer??

Sorry for the rant and I don’t mean to hurt anyone, it’s just a rant, and I’m also curious about other moms thoughts x