Sorry for the long rant, but I’ve been really bothered lately. The father of my child has not made my pregnancy (12 weeks now) easy. He cheated on me about a week AFTER finding out I was pregnant. He missed our first ultrasound appointment and I am currently living at my apartment and he barely communicates with me. Now I am the most understanding type of individual. He has other children, which I know and I have no problem with, but they are above 10. He got angry with me after he cheated because I was angry with him. He claimed I needed to understand there are consequences for how I act in a relationship. I told him about our appointment three times in a week and also texted him about it and he was leaving the house to work (he is self-employed) when I had to go to my appointment. I was so livid about the appointment, I’ve been staying at my apartment when I normally stay with him. I had to go to the hospital due to stress because I could not control my breathing and I called him multiple times with no answer. Now he claims I must text him for him to answer me. I just feel like he’s cheating again and I wish I knew the truth and I could just stop wanting him to be in my life but this is my first baby and I want him there, not just financially, but physically. As time goes on, I made plans to move in with him to help with the baby but I’m just not sure with how he’s acting if I should just do this on my own.