How would you feel if your man called another girl pretty?

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I seen it in his Snapchat messages and the girl replied thank you.
That’s all the messages said, unless he deleted others but like I’m kinda mad but at the same time I’m like it’s whatever. 
But honestly ladies, how would you feel?
No I wasn’t sneaking through his phone, he was next to me using it and i seen it as he was going through his phone.

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Obviously my husband thinks other women are attractive ... just like I can find other men attractive..... I think it’s inappropriate for someone in a relationship to seek out someone to compliment their appearance.

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I would kill him.
Just kidding. Call me jealous, but seriously, this is a huge red flag. 🚩🚩🚩🚩

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Nope, definitely not ok.

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Do I find it inappropriate to message someone individually to tell them? Yes. But I don’t expect my husband not to find other women attractive and vice versa. We won’t hide if we find someone pretty or handsome but the difference is we don’t go and tell these people directly.

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Not allowed in my relationship. My man knows better and doesn’t find other girls attractive. Some people can be one person only . To me it’s cheating .

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I wouldn’t be okay with him saying it to another girl, especially through text or social media. 
He talks to me about other women being attractive, but not in a creepy or gross way. Like he will say that a co-worker is pretty. It used to bother me, but it doesn’t really anymore. I know he’s not lusting after these women. He just sees that they have attractive qualities. It made me feel a little better because I used to feel guilty for thinking men were attractive  It’s not like I want to be with them or anything, but they gave attractive features. We also mention to each other that people of our same sex are attractive. We are just complimenting God’s creation.

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Calling a girl pretty and telling a girl she is pretty are 2 different things. If my husband said a girl was pretty, no problem. If my husband tells a girl "you're pretty" on a snap chat message, he better learn to STFU.

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I understand ever man and woman will find other people attractive but there is no reason while in a relationship they should be telling another person they are pretty.

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My husband is able to let me know when he thinks another woman is pretty. He wouldn't be on Snap behind my back. 💁

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That would not be okay with me. If you think she’s pretty, tell me you think she’s pretty, not her.

How would you feel if your man called another girl pretty?

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