What did I do?

I texted my ex who broke up with me on Christmas if he would like to come pick up any of his things from my house before I throw them out and this was the response I get? We tried to fix things last week but he talks to me like this so I told him I couldn’t deal with it anymore... I went and worked as a stripper for a weekend and he found out so he’s mad about it... anyways, he’s 22. Is this just how guys this age talk to woman? 😕 I spent two years with him and he’s said worse things. I just feel so emotionally damaged by him I don’t know what is normal. Thoughts?