& if you don’t mind me asking, what is considered QUALITY time between you and your s/o

My and my man haven’t gone out on a date In god knows how long? When we watch a show, he just sits on his phone the whole time. Mornings before work are me making breakfast and then giving him a plate while he plays video games. I asked him if we could clean up together, as in I wash dishes and he dries them and puts them away, he told me that’s dumb and he has never done it. Even when I ask him 😐 I’m just starting to feel we have no meaningful moments. It’s like, when he’s ready for sex he turns his phone off and starts complimenting me and giving me massages. But that’s ONLY when he wants sex. Idk maybe I’m being over dramatic but damn .. I feel so alone