As my OBGYN was asking me questions I had my phone out with all my symptoms charted, predictions, etc... my period has been irregular and I got off birth control a few months ago. She told me to wait 3 more months and made me promise her I won’t chart or stress. After the 3 months we will do tests to figure out what we can do to conceive with some help. I’m told to take it easy and go with the flow. I didn’t want to hear that but I know she’s right. Stress can really effect getting pregnant and just ruins the TTC journey.

I’m taking a deep breathe and I’m going to live MY life and will go back to see my OBGYN May 4th.