What would you do??

So talking to a guy and you mention that your period finished (cause he joked that I was pregnant as I said I felt sick and I said no I wasn't i.e on my period). He joked back saying ooh better take note every four weeks. I joked back with a sad face emoji like no don't leave me on my own then a laughing one. He said nah I don't want any red sheets thanks. I was like oh thanks man 😂 I said "well a real man wouldn't care 😉" he said well "real men are boring, I don't wanna be a real man, if those things make you a real man I don't wanna be one 😂". So I don't know if he was just joking but it made me feel a bit awkward especially if we did date and it got to that point. But on a side note we've been taking three weeks and before that we stopped talking for a few months but over the summer last year we spoke for almost two months. I stopped talking to him cause I kept asking for a date and he kept putting it off. He reached out a few weeks ago saying he'd like to talk again and see where things go, I thought he might be serious this time. But when I've brought up that are we ever gonna meet for a date he gets defensive and says I should be the one asking him and he won't ask me out again cause apparently he did (but never explicitly asked). He then turned it on me saying I obviously think low of him because I assume he doesn't wanna meet me🤔 he's 30 I'm 22 so when we first started talking I thought he'd be this mature guy who knows what he wants but I get times where I feel he's just stringing me along. Am I overreacting? What are your thoughts?