Husband and my friend hooked up? Sorry for the long post!
So I have a best friend let’s name her Jessica, she has a twin sister, let’s name her Ana.
So I noticed sometime last year that my husband and ana have been talking a lot on Snapchat. I kind of brushed it off but things started feeling weird. A girl knows when something is up. I didn’t have proof so I couldn’t confront them. Until another friend of mine over heard ana tell Jessica that my husband wanted her to delete their conversations on Snapchat or something like that. I found that weird. Ana always saves every single message so when I checked my husbands phone there was nothing. Ana and Jessica came to visit me recently and after they left my husband got home and I couldn’t hold back so I made up a lie. I told him ana told me about you two cuse she felt bad, I told him that I know you two flirted around and to my surprise he didn’t deny it. He said he was making her feel good about herself cuse she had issues going on with her husband. I told him that he needs to mind he’s own business and fix his marriage first instead of Hers. I also said that they tried to meet up before. He stayed quiet. I was pissed I couldn’t say nothing no more so I went to bed. The next day I called up Jessica and told her to be honest with me and tell me what happened between ana and my husband. I honestly thought she wasn’t gonna say nothing but she did. She told me that ana told her that my husband will constantly tell her she’s pretty and that my husband kept deleting her from Snapchat and re adding her back again all the time. And that if they screwed around she wouldn’t know because ana wouldn’t tell her knowing she’s my best friend. I called up ana after hanging up the phone with Jessica. I told her to tell me the truth because I already knew and wanted to hear it from her. She stated that they talked a lot and my husband flirted with her but she never ever flirted back. And that they never did anything and she puts it on her kids. She did tell me she found it weird that he kept deleting her from Snapchat and I told her why don’t u save the messages from him and she said cuse he asked me to delete them. I told her that looks wrong. And she kept swearing they didn’t do anything. But she did say 2 years ago at my sons party he hugged her and smacked her ass. And she hit him. I stayed quiet cuse it seemed like this was going on longer than I thought. That’s pretty much all she said and since I’m a dumbass and forgive people I said thank you for your honesty and we’re still friends. My husband was forgiven and we moved on but damn idk I think there was more but I can’t prove it. I feel like such a dumbass. My friend thinks I should’ve ended my friendship with ana and she thinks I let my husband off easy but idk, idk what to do. What would u have done?
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