Last year my husband made it clear to me he was going on his cousins bachelor trip to Colombia last year, after he told me he didn’t have time or money to take us on a honeymoon. He went to Colombia we never had a honeymoon. And now after I told him our date months in advance on maternity pictures he tells me he is going to get another one of his cousins bachelor party I asked when is it don’t forget our pictures is May 23rd he goes “im going to the bachelor party I don’t give a f*** about your pictures pay to have it rescheduled” at that moment I felt as if I once again wasn’t a priority especially with him knowing in advanced when the pictures were he still can’t confirm what date the party is but at the same time his initial reaction yet again made me feel very little. I can easily take the pictures alone and with my eldest son since he appears to not give a damn.