How to Fall In Love?

I'm almost 30 and I'm starting to believe that the angel of love has forgotten all about me. I hear so many people say they weren't looking and found it or never knew someone close to them was the one all along. I feel like I am missing something. That 1 trait that makes me standout. That ONE thing that makes me desirable.

I've followed good and bad advice and I'm really beginning to think that it's not in the books for me. I'd like to add that I spend any free time I have writing. I love trying new restaurants and going to the movies. I workout. My point is, I spend enough time with hobbies (true hobbies, not just keeping my mind busy) and I have a great career.

Do y'all believe everyone is meant to fall in love?